Wednesday, March 29, 2017

This Week's Word & Thought: Another

“Once I knew only darkness and stillness... my life was without past or future... but a little word from the fingers of another fell into my hand that clutched at emptiness, and my heart leaped to the rapture of living.” – Helen Keller

The actions of another, Anne Sullivan, opened up the world to Helen Keller.  The patience and kindness of another gave Helen an entire world of sensations and gave us a wonderful author, political activist, and lecturer.  She has always been an inspiration to me when I believe I have obstacles too severe to overcome.  Where Helen Keller started from was encased in barriers to prevent her from living a full and extraordinary life.  My obstacles are generally far less daunting and a simple “self-kick” in the ass will get me moving.

However, it is very important to remember, that another with a simple act of teaching and kindness, created a ripple effect.  Anne Sullivan, whose own life was full of obstacles to overcome, helped to give us a human treasure that continues to inspire and push others to be more.  To be a better human.  I believe I would be worse for the absence of the Helen Keller we know about and therefore thankful that the universe conspired to bring together Helen and Anne.

The purpose of this piece, I hope, is to convey to you your importance as an example, a teacher, a friend, a loved one.  You can make all the difference in the world, either positive or negative.  That is up to you.

A brief Wikipedia history on Helen Keller:

Helen Adams Keller (June 27, 1880 – June 1, 1968) was an American author, political activist, and lecturer. She was the first deaf-blind person to earn a bachelor of arts degree. The story of how Keller's teacher, Anne Sullivan, broke through the isolation imposed by a near complete lack of language, allowing the Helen as a girl to blossom as she learned to communicate, has become widely known through the dramatic depictions of the play and film The Miracle Worker. Her birthplace in West Tuscumbia, Alabama, is now a museum and sponsors an annual "Helen Keller Day". Her birthday on June 27 is commemorated as Helen Keller Day in the U.S. state of Pennsylvania and was authorized at the federal level by presidential proclamation by President Jimmy Carter in 1980, the 100th anniversary of her birth.

A prolific author, Keller was well-traveled and outspoken in her convictions. A member of the Socialist Party of America and the Industrial Workers of the World, she campaigned for women's suffrage, labor rights, socialism, antimilitarism, and other similar causes. She was inducted into the Alabama Women's Hall of Fame in 1971 and was one of twelve inaugural inductees to the Alabama Writers Hall of Fame on June 8, 2015. Helen proved to the world that deaf people could all learn to communicate and that they could survive in the hearing world. She also taught that deaf people are capable of doing things that hearing people can do. She is one of the most famous deaf people in history and she is an idol to many deaf people in the world.

A brief Wikipedia history on Anne Sullivan:

Johanna Mansfield Sullivan Macy, better known as Anne Sullivan, was an American teacher, best known for being the instructor and lifelong companion of Helen Keller. At the age of five, she contracted trachoma, a highly contagious eye disease, which left her blind and without reading or writing skills. She received her education as a student of the Perkins School for the Blind where upon graduation she became a teacher to Keller when she was 20.

Sullivan was born on April 14, 1866, in Feeding Hills, Agawam, Massachusetts. According to her baptismal certificate, her name at birth was Johanna Mansfield Sullivan; however, she was called Anne or Annie from birth. She was the oldest child of Thomas and Alice (Cloesy) Sullivan. Her parents were illiterate, unskilled, and impoverished immigrants who came to the United States from County Limerick, Ireland, during the Great Famine. When she was only five years old she contracted a bacterial eye disease known as trachoma, which created painful infections and over time made her nearly blind. When she was eight, her mother died and her father abandoned the children two years later for fear he could not raise them on his own. She and her younger brother, James ("Jimmie"), were sent to an overcrowded almshouse in Tewksbury, Massachusetts (today part of Tewksbury Hospital). Jimmie suffered from a weak hip ailment and died two to three months into their stay. Sullivan remained at the Tewksbury house for four years after his death, where she had eye operations that offered some short-term relief for her eye pain but ultimately proved ineffective.

Sullivan lost her sight at a young age and therefore had no skills in reading, writing, or sewing and the only work she could find was as a housemaid; however, this position was unsuccessful. Another blind resident staying at the Tewksbury almshouse told her of schools for the blind. During an 1880 inspection of the almshouse, she convinced inspector Franklin Benjamin Sanborn to allow her to leave and enroll in the Perkins School for the Blind in Boston, where she began her studies on October 7, 1880. Although her rough manners made her first years at Perkins humiliating for her, she managed to connect with a few teachers and made progress with her learning. While there, she befriended and learned the manual alphabet from Laura Bridgman, a graduate of Perkins and the first blind and deaf person to be educated there. Also, while there, she had a series of eye operations that significantly improved her vision. In June 1886, she graduated at age 20 as the valedictorian of her class. She stated, "Fellow-graduates: duty bids us go forth into active life. Let us go cheerfully, hopefully, and earnestly, and set ourselves to find our especial part. When we have found it, willingly and faithfully perform it."

The summer following Sullivan's graduation, the director of the Perkins Institution, Michael Anagnos, was contacted by Arthur Keller, who was in search of a teacher for his 7-year-old blind and deaf daughter, Helen. Anagnos immediately recommended Sullivan for this position and she began her work on March 3, 1887 at the Kellers' home in Tuscumbia, Alabama. As soon as she arrived there, she argued with Helen's parents about the Civil War and over the fact that they used to own slaves. However, she also quickly connected with Helen. It was the beginning of a 49-year relationship: Sullivan evolved from teacher to governess and finally to companion and friend.

I hope you enjoyed!


Namaste,

Wednesday, March 22, 2017

This Week's Word & Thought: True Love

I recently watched a very compelling video of Abraham J. Twerski titled True Love is a Love of Giving.  The video was very thought provoking and caused some serious self-analysis within me.  The concept is simple really.  If you love for what love gives you, that is not True Love.  True Love is what You give away with no expectations in return.  Whether it be friends, family, your lover or spouse, or humanity in general, you must give freely and without expectations of returned love.  This is an extraordinarily powerful concept. 

Here is a link to the video.  I do hope you watch it.


Further to this concept, I researched more on quotes that help to sum up the celebration of True Love.  I believe the following does it quite well.

“Love consists in giving without getting in return; in giving what is not owed, what is not due the other. That's why true love is never based, as associations for utility or pleasure are, on a fair exchange.” – Mortimer Adler

A little self-evaluation never hurts.

Some information on Abraham J. Twerski from the ever-wonderful Wikipedia:

Abraham Joshua Twerski is an American Hasidic rabbi, a scion of the Chernobil Hasidic dynasty, and a psychiatrist specializing in substance abuse. He was born October 6, 1930 (age 87 years).  Twerski was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. He is a son of Grand Rebbe Jacob Israel Twerski, originally from Hornosteipel, Ukraine, and Dvorah Leah Twerski.  He was educated in Milwaukee Public Schools, and graduated from North Division High School in 1948. He then enrolled in the Hebrew Theological College of Chicago (now located in Skokie, Illinois) and was ordained a rabbi in 1951. In 1953 Twerski enrolled at Milwaukee's Marquette University, and subsequently graduated from its medical school in 1960, after which he moved to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.  He has authored over 45 books.

Some information on Mortimer Adler again from Wikipedia:
           
Mortimer Jerome Adler (December 28, 1902 – June 28, 2001) was an American philosopher, educator, and popular author. As a philosopher, he worked within the Aristotelian and Thomistic traditions. He lived for long stretches in New York City, Chicago, San Francisco, and San Mateo, California. He worked for Columbia University, the University of Chicago, Encyclopedia Britannica, and Adler's own Institute for Philosophical Research.  He authored over 40 books.  Here are a few very simple but excellent quotes from Adler.

“In the case of good books, the point is not to see how many of them you can get through, but how many can get through to you.”

“The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue growing as we continue to live.”

“Freedom is the emancipation from the arbitrary rule of other men.”

Hoping you find as much love as you freely give.  Namaste, Tom


“Radiate boundless love towards the entire world.”  - Buddha

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

This Week's Word & Thought: Diversity

I believe “diversity” is more important now than any other time in recent history.  Our acceptance and indeed our relishing the diversity of those around us will sustain our country and possibly the world through this uncertain political climate.

It is also important to show that business, corporate, people of faith, etc., are good and should not be shunned for their position or faith.  One of the single best examples is Max De Pree, former CEO of Herman Miller.

Mr. De Pree has been recognized as a business leader, but more importantly an absolute believer in the value of individuals as human.  In their contribution to making the world a better place.  He also allowed his faith to truly guide him in the treatment of others and did so without condemnation or judgement. 

I believe it is very important to realize that good people come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, faiths, genders, and backgrounds.  It is important not to stereotype and put blinders on to those with traits we might find indicate a certain type of belief system.  I myself am not religious and view larger corporations with a bit of skepticism; however, Mr. De Pree is a shining example that I must be careful of my own prejudices and keep an open mind.

I believe the following is one of my favorite and most beautiful quotes and it is from Mr. De Pree.

“We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion.” – Max De Pree

Thanks Mr. De Pree.  You are pretty much a Rockstar in my book.

Here is some information if you would like to learn a bit more about Max De Pree.




Namaste,

Tom

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

This Week's Word & Thought: Friendship

At this stage in my life, I have come to appreciate more than ever the friends in my life.  Many I have known for years as I have now lived in the San Francisco Bay Area for almost 22 years (next month is my 22nd anniversary in the bay area).  The love and joy as well as the sorrow and trying times together are what bond you. 

We have traveled together, eaten together, drank together (at times too much!), maybe had a bit of herbal enjoyment together, and holidays together.  We have also mourned together, been a mess together, shared highs and lows together, celebrated unions and babies together, and we been angry together.  But, most of all, we have grown together.

My friends include family as well as those I consider my family.  Friends are not defined by blood, but by love.  Every chance that I can grow a new friendship or renew an old friendship is exciting to me.  I have the chance to learn something new or to experience life through the thoughts of another.  An opportunity to appreciate the beauty and diversity of life through others.

But with this comes great responsibility to those friends.  A true friend is there in the difficult times and not just the good times.  They are the ones to first offer you help.  I have been someone offered many great gifts from my beautiful friends.  This includes everything from financial to shared living to extravagant gifts to absolute acceptance and love for who I am.  I hope to always give back my devotion and love to my friends.  To be there when needed and to enjoy the good times with them as well.  Friends make your life a new and exciting adventure each day and for that I thank you.


Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.”  - Khalil Gibran



Some History for Khalil Gibran from Wikipedia:

Kahlil Gibran, sometimes spelled Khalil; full Arabic name Gibran Khalil Gibran, Arabic: جبران خليل جبران‎‎ Born January 6, 1883 and died April 10, 1931.  He was a Lebanese-American artist, poet, and writer of the New York Pen League. Gibran was born in the town of Bsharri in the Mount Lebanon Mutasarrifate, Ottoman Empire (north of modern-day Lebanon), to Khalil Gibran and Kamila Gibran (Rahmeh). As a young man, Gibran immigrated with his family to the United States, where he studied art and began his literary career, writing in both English and Arabic. In the Arab world, Gibran is regarded as a literary and political rebel. His romantic style was at the heart of a renaissance in modern Arabic literature, especially prose poetry, breaking away from the classical school. In Lebanon, he is still celebrated as a literary hero.  He is chiefly known in the English-speaking world for his 1923 book The Prophet (Which I have a copy of and love the book!), an early example of inspirational fiction including a series of philosophical essays written in poetic English prose. The book sold well despite a cool critical reception, gaining popularity in the 1930s and again especially in the 1960s counterculture.  Gibran is the third best-selling poet of all time, behind Shakespeare and Laozi.

Quotes:

“Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair.”

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.”

“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.”


This is for you my friends. 

Namaste,

Tom